As the #1 male celebrant in Australia as voted in the ABIA Designer of Dreams Awards 2024, I’ve had the privilege of witnessing countless ceremonies that are as unique as the couples themselves. After many years in this beautiful industry, I’ve seen what works, what doesn’t, and what truly makes a ceremony unforgettable. Whether you're newly engaged or knee-deep in wedding plans, these five top tips will help you create a ceremony that’s as perfect as your love story.

1. **Personalisation is Key**

Your ceremony should be a reflection of your relationship. This is your moment to tell your love story—how you met, your journey together, and what makes your bond unique. Consider incorporating personalised vows, inside jokes, or special readings that resonate with both of you. The more your ceremony feels like *you*, the more memorable it will be for both you and your guests.

2. **Choose the Right Celebrant** - THAT'S ME!!

Your celebrant is more than just a legal requirement; they’re the voice of your love story. Make sure you choose someone who understands your vision, makes you feel comfortable, and can set the right tone—whether it's romantic, fun, or somewhere in between. As a seasoned celebrant, I always strive to connect with my couples and ensure that their personalities shine through in every word spoken. Give me a google and check out my reviews.

3. **Timing is Everything**

The timing of your ceremony can make all the difference. Consider the season, the time of day, and how long you want the ceremony to last. A late afternoon ceremony might give you beautiful, golden-hour photos, while a shorter, sweet ceremony can keep the energy high and lead seamlessly into the reception. Work with your celebrant to create a timeline that flows naturally and keeps everyone engaged.

4. **Involve Your Loved Ones**

Incorporating friends and family into your ceremony can add a deeper layer of meaning. Whether it’s reading from a close friend, a special song performed by a loved one, or even having family members as part of the procession (I personally love a FlowerNAN or RingPOP, AKA grandfather ring bearer), these moments can make your ceremony feel even more personal and heartfelt. Just be sure to give them clear guidance so they feel comfortable and confident in their roles.

5. **Embrace the Unexpected**

No matter how meticulously you plan, there will always be a few surprises. Whether it’s an unplanned laugh, a gust of wind, or an emotional tear, these moments are what make your ceremony truly special. Embrace them! They’re a reminder that love is beautifully unpredictable. Your guests will remember the authenticity of the moment more than the perfection of the script.

Final Thoughts

Planning the perfect ceremony is about more than just following a checklist—it's about crafting a moment that truly reflects who you are as a couple. With these tips in mind, you’ll be well on your way to creating a ceremony that’s as unforgettable as your love.

Remember, the magic of a wedding ceremony lies not in the perfection but in the love and joy shared between you, your partner, and those who matter most. If you’re looking for a celebrant who can bring your love story to life, I’d be honoured to be a part of your special day.

Jordan Vassallo

Australia’s #1 Male Celebrant

Bringing Love Stories to Life